Sexual Problems

parrots making love
Foreplay is essential, even for parrots!

Sex is a basic human need, and having problems in
that area often reduces confidence in other areas of life. Embarrassment deters
many people from seeking help. And many people don’t realise how common sexual
problems are- their friends may boast about their sexual successes, but will
generally keep quiet about difficulties.

I help with the psychological side of these
problems. I do NOT perform any physical examination. If you think there’s
something physically wrong then you need to see your GP. Sad to say, some
people wait many years before seeking help for a medical problem that might be
treated quite easily!

“Erectile Dysfunction” or inability to “get it up”
t is normally a form of “performance anxiety”, where the anticipation of
failure causes anxiety, which in turn causes loss of erection, thus creating a
vicious circle. In some cases however it can however be a sign of physical
disease, so I insist that any client must see their GP first to check for
illnesses like diabetes. Hypnosis is an effective means of overcoming this
anxiety and rebuilding confidence.

I have a positive attitude to all forms of sexual
expression so long as all participants are consenting adults, risk-aware, and
are not endangering other people outside of their relationship. Despite the
general acceptance of gay and lesbian sexuality nowadays, some sexual
minorities are still misunderstood by the “vanilla” mainstream. My clients can
be assured of absolute confidentiality.